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You Say Tomato, I Say Tomahto

April 23, 2014 By Lena

If you don’t know, I’m hosting a Twitter Party tonight for #RoyaleTigerTowel Paper Towels. And in chatting with an old friend, she casually asked,

“So, does Ryder still call paper towels f**k?”

WHAT?? Oh Lord. Memories immediately came flooding back. It’s true! Ryder used to call paper towels f*ck. Here’s a post I wrote in 2010 – when Ryder, as an impressionable toddler, picked up on my potty mouth and in a nanosecond, completely erased any mommy cred I had. Sigh.

August 20, 2010

I say paper towels, Ryder says f**k.

WHAT??

Okay, it’s all my fault. I broke the cardinal rule of parenting – Whatever You Do, Do Not Swear in Front of Your Child. And not only did I break it, but my infraction took place at a time when Ryder only needs to hear a word once to add it to his vocabulary. Sheesh.

It was three weeks ago, and I was lining my eyes with a soft black eyeliner in the bathroom. Ryder came in to observe (he likes watching mommy play with all the pretty pots) and I basically ignored him, going about my business as usual. Just as I was admiring my handiwork, out of the corner of my eye I noticed that Ryder had completely unrolled the toilet paper – leaving it in tufts on the floor.

“F**K!” I yelled.

He looked at me with wide eyes, pointed at the toilet paper, and said “F**k.”

“No, no, no,” I corrected. “That’s toilet paper. TOI-LET PA-PER. Say it, Ryder – Toilet Paper.”

He stared at me blankly. Whatever, we’re cool. No harm done. I calmly re-rolled the toilet paper to the best of my abilities and took him downstairs for breakfast.

Did you ever notice how paper towel rolls look like giant toilet paper rolls? Ryder did. And he then pointed to the paper towel roll on the counter top and declared, “F**k.”

Lord Jesus, what have I done.

I corrected him once again. And the next day. And the next day. I tried diversion: “Did you mean truck, Ryder? Because that’s not a truck, that’s a paper towel roll.” I tried correcting him: “Oooh, that is a bad word, sweetheart, you shouldn’t say it.” And I even tried begging: “Please, please, please, say PA-PER TO-WEL, come on, say it for mommy.”

Nothing doin’.

Now like most toddler phases, I was prepared to wait it out, reasoning that sooner or later he would forget the baddie and accept that “paper towels” is in fact the preferred term for tiny towels made of paper. But you know what really blows? The fact that he finds it necessary to point out the f**k to everyone who visits my home. Grandma has seen the f**k. My girlfriend was passed a f**k. Even Ryder’s great aunt was offered a f**k. And then I invariably turn beet red as I try to explain why my baby boy is cussing out the paper goods.

Oh well. Walmart’s got a good price on paper towels this week. Time to stock the f**k up.

Filed Under: Family Tagged With: babies, fun, Lena, random rant

New Baby Products at Well.ca! #Giveaway

March 20, 2012 By Lena

Note: The following giveaway is open to Canadians only.

I’ve been a huge fan of Well.ca for years. For hard-to-find products (especially natural ones – they were the first to carry an enviable selection of Burt’s Bees products), items on sale or promotion, or even things you’d rather not shop for in person (sometimes, anonymity is your friend) – there’s Well.ca.

Apart from being Canada’s largest online health and beauty store, they also happen to offer FREE shipping on EVERY order for Canadians! So, I can order my eos Lip Balm for just $3.99, and have it ship to my door at no extra cost. #winning

Recently, Well.ca expanded their Baby & Kids section, adding a wide array of baby gear, healthy & safety and nursery products from top, trusted brands. In fact, they recently released their Top 10 Picks:

1. Belly Bandit Original Post Pregnancy Belly Wrap
2. Bumbo Baby Sitter
3. Crane Cool Mist Adorable Animal Humidifier
4. Jolly Jumper Bel Air Rocking Cradle – Oak
5. Jolly Jumper Snuggle Bag
6. Moby Wrap
7. Munchkin Auto Close Gate
8. My Brest Friend Deluxe Pillow
9. Phil & Teds Portable High Chair
10. Philips AVENT IQ Digital Bottle and Baby Food Warmer

You can find these and other amazing products on the site. Keep an eye out for sales and promotions, where you can maximize the savings and free shipping combo!

Click here to shop at Well.ca.

WIN IT!!!

One lucky Listen to Lena reader will win a Phil & Teds Portable High Chair from Well.ca, valued at $79.99! To enter, simply visit the website and find 2 (two) other baby products that you’re happy to see available on Well.ca.

You can also qualify for extra entries! Remember, you must leave a separate comment for each. You can:

(1) “Like” Listen to Lena on Facebook
(2) Follow Listen to Lena on Twitter
(3) “Like” Well.ca on Facebook
(4) Follow Well.ca on Twitter
(5) Share the Giveaway on your Facebook Profile or Page
(6) Tweet daily about this giveaway; Please use this Well.ca Giveaway Tweet.

I’ll draw for a winner on April 2, 2012. Good luck everybody!

Filed Under: Contests, Family Tagged With: babies, giveaway, online shopping, Phil & Teds Portable Highchair, Well.ca

Weleda Calendula Baby Care #Giveaway

February 23, 2012 By Lena

Note: The following giveaway is open to Canadians only.

I don’t think there’s a single person out there who doesn’t believe that natural is better.

(Unless you work for the petroleum industry, of course, in which case – rock on with those chemicals, dude – just keep them away from me… and my skin.)

This post is rather timely: although Toronto has been spared from much of Old Man Winter’s wrath, the weather network is calling for about 10cm of the white stuff tomorrow (insert sad face). And while snow really looks pretty from a window when you’re snuggled by the fireplace, outside, the elements can wreak havoc on your skin.

Dry, cracked skin. Brittle nails. Chapped lips. Flaky, red patches. Oh my!

Of course, if our skin is vulnerable to frigid weather, imagine what it can do to the soft, sensitive skin of a baby! Thank goodness we have access to high quality products which nourish and protect, including Weleda’s Calendula Baby Care. I’ve had a chance to dabble in a few of the products, which include all-natural ingredients that are compatible with the skin’s natural lipid layer, helping to maintain the skin’s protective barrier and prevent skin from reacting. In short, let’s just say that I. Am. Impressed.

But fist, why Calendula?

“Calendula is known for aiding the healing process of small wounds, red, inflamed skin and skin infections. As a natural antiseptic, calendula is renowned for soothing irritated skin. The flowers blossom under warm sunlight. This vitality is captured in our formulas, wrapping your little one in a layer of warmth and protection.”

(Trust me, this isn’t just any old calendula. The medicinal plant is grown biodynamically in the Weleda’s own gardens in Schwäbisch Gmünd, Germany! So let’s just say they have a handle on the quality of the ingredients.)

I’ve been using Weleda’s NEW Calendula Weather Protection Cream for the last few days, and I’m quite loving everything about the formula. The 100% natural product shields skin from the damage caused by exposure to outdoor elements such as wind, cold and rain, and since it contains pure beeswax, it protects skin while allowing it to breathe, unlike products which contain petroleum-based ingredients like mineral oils….

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Filed Under: Beauty, Contests Tagged With: babies, Beauty, Calendula Weather Protection Cream, giveaway, review, Weleda

tommee tippee spill proof drink cup: YES!

December 16, 2011 By Lena

Last month, I had the pleasure of jetting down to NYC for a tommee tippee North America press event.

I know, #dreamgig.

But more than the glitz and glamour of New York, and the awesome chance to learn about one of the hottest brands to come over from jolly ol’ England, I must say…

I fell in love with tommee tippee. So much, I *briefly* considered having a third. Oh yes, my ovaries were aching.

I remember sitting in the incredibly stylish Manhattan loft thinking – how can I ever cram all this goodness into one post? There are so many über-clever features to each product, it would be a shame to lump them all into a generic review with a smattering of random photos.

Therefore, I’ve decided to pick out my favourite items, and dammit – I’m going to convince you to buy them. And so I’ve spent the better part of a month getting familiar with their best-selling (and most loved) infant and toddler products, and you can look forward to more reviews over the next few weeks.

Yes, I was sent a whack of stuff to check out. No, I’m not being paid a cent to be such an enthusiastic #fangirl. Just happen to think this brand is tops….

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Filed Under: Family Tagged With: babies, review, sippy cups, Tommee Tippee

Meet My BFF

November 15, 2011 By Lena

I never thought of myself as the type of woman to have a BFF. 

It’s quite obvious, actually; I covet my personal space, don’t mind being by myself for long periods of time and would much rather dance to the beat of my own drum. So the fact that I’ve been attached to the hip of my BFF for the last 18 months is somewhat puzzling to me – especially since it’s out of character for me to share so much with one individual.

Meet my BFF… my Breast Feeding Fanatic.

Reid will be 18 months old next week, and he’s still firmly attached to my boobies.

(That’s 1.5 years for those who don’t speak mom-ish; I know, we’re insufferable with our measurement of baby’s age by months, no?)

Please don’t assume I’m one of those women who believes exclusive breast milk is best until the child is 4 years old, because Reid does eat table food (he loves fruit and pasta) and drinks homo milk, juice and water. But, he also loves a good cuddle with mommy, and asks for breast milk about 10 times per day.

Of course, I don’t actually give in to his demands – allotting him only about 5 minutes at the breast a handful of times. But that doesn’t stop him from trying his luck; he normally gropes at my top whenever I’m too close for too long, and although Reid hasn’t mastered speech just yet, he can clearly articulate his desire for “Neh-Neh”. And sometimes I cave; it’s just the best way to calm him down from a tantrum, get him drowsy for a nap or keep him shushed while I talk on the telephone.

Trouble is, I’m not quite sure how to wean him. And I’m not quite certain I want to.

Truthfully, I’d love for him to sleep through the night without the expectation of a warm quickie to lull him back to sleep. And, I’d be even happier if I could be away for a day and not have rock-hard boobs by the end of it. But the simple fact is, I can’t imagine not pulling him onto my lap and bringing him in close; having his warm hand on my heart as he settles in to feed. I rather enjoy the one-on-one time with him, and feel the need to protect a bonding experience I’m not willing to give up just yet.

My continued relationship with my BFF is met with mixed reactions.

“Good for you. I breastfed my little one until she was two.”
“You know you need to stop, right? He’s old enough.”
“Are you still f%#king breast feeding???”
“That’s awesome. I plan on breast feeding for as long as possible.”

I’m not too concerned with what others say. Depending on my mood, I’ll wholeheartedly agree with them (“I know! I’m sick of it already! He needs to be weaned…”) or just shrug my shoulders and go about my day. I know that the decisions I make will be best for Reid and me, and it’s sometimes hard for onlookers – even friends and family – to appreciate that. But it’s not a big deal –

After all, nobody comes between a girl and her BFF.

Filed Under: Family Tagged With: babies, breastfeeding, Reader Favourites

Britax Marathon 65 #Giveaway

November 12, 2011 By Lena

Note: This Giveaway is now CLOSED.

Shocker! A Britax feature on Listen to Lena!

Okay, I suppose I *may* have featured Britax products a time or two (or three, or four…). But quite simply, I believe that they are the most trusted name in juvenile products, known for their commitment to thoughtful engineering and top-quality, intuitive design. And since they happen to be the number one selling manufacturer of car seats in Canada, chances are you’ve already purchased one.

(Since I’m all about sharing valuable information… read my reviews for the Britax Advocate 65 CS, Britax B-READY and Britax Chaperone Travel System.)

Now I’ll be frank; when it comes to my children’s safety, I don’t shop around. For car seats, strollers and carriers, it’s Britax all the way. But I recently found myself in a bit of a new situation; now that the boys are older, sometimes I’ll take one of them with me to run errands, for play dates – even to attend press events. And since I often end up in downtown TO, I prefer zipping around in my car vs. taking my husband’s large SUV. (Have you ever tried finding street parking with a large car? ‘Nuff said.)

The trouble? I drive a Mini Cooper. And they’re teeny….

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Filed Under: Contests, Family Tagged With: babies, Britax, giveaway, Marathon 65 Car Seat, review, safety

Old Navy Canada: Baby Sale!

September 11, 2011 By Lena

It’s one of my hap-happiest times of the year!

Since my kids aren’t of school age just yet (one more year for Ryder – eek! Where did the time fly?) I generally look forward to the Old Navy Baby Sale, which happens every year around this time. And from now until September 22nd, the mad savings are back!

Step 1: Visit Old Navy in-store or online and enjoy savings on EVERY item (average discount 30%), from sizes Newborn – 5T.

Step 2: If shopping in-store, be sure to visit Old Navy’s FB Fan Page first and print out your coupon for an additional 30% off one item (excludes clearance, gift cards and jewelry – BUT you can use it on non-clearance items in the baby sale, which covers just about everything). Valid until September 22nd. The coupon code is universal so you may want to print two and ask the cashier to separate the transactions: I do it all the time and it works like a charm.

Step 3: If you decide to shop online and have yet to sign up to receive ON news (or have an extra e-mail address you can throw in there… shhh… I won’t tell) you’ll instantly receive a coupon for $10 off your purchase of $50 or more (which equals 20% off your entire purchase if you only spend $50). A bonus? You’ll score FREE shipping.

I’m off to rummage through Ryder’s fall/winter stash to see what he needs for the upcoming season. Poor Reid is always good to go with big brother’s hand-me-downs; perhaps I’ll grab him a few new threads in the sale as well. He deserves it!

Click here to shop at Old Navy Canada.

Filed Under: Fashion Tagged With: babies, Old Navy, online shopping, sale

Fisher-Price: Celebrating Milestones Contest!

June 30, 2011 By Lena

Who doesn’t love a good contest? Especially when it celebrates your baby’s oh-so-important achievements!

Simply register at FisherPricePlay.ca and you’ll have the chance to win a “Celebrating Milestones” prize pack of Fisher-Price toys valued at $200, plus a spa gift card valued at $200! There’s a prize every month until October, so link on over today!

Here are the contest rules:

*Contest open April 14 – October 31, 2011. Milestone story not required for entry. All consumers who register at FisherPricePlay.ca during the contest period will be eligible to win one (1) of six (6) prize packs from Fisher-Price (each valued at $400). Draws will take place monthly, starting in May 31, on the last day of the month, until October 31, 2011. Winners will be contacted directly by email, and may be asked to share a milestone story at that time. All non-winning registrants will carry forward and are eligible for subsequent monthly draws.

If you have a chance, be sure to share a milestone story – us moms love to ooh and aah over all those precious highlights! I’ve had the pleasure of witnessing a few milestones over the past month or so – little Reid turned 1 at the end of May (I think first birthdays are always a baby’s most celebrated milestone), he began to walk shortly after, and just recently he has started calling out “Mama!” when he wants to be picked up! It is such a joy to see the changes from day to day, especially since he was just a tiny little baby only a year ago.

As for Ryder, we just cleared a major milestone – after going over two weeks without a single accident, I can semi-confidently say he’s toilet trained! Of course, I know that there are relapses, random accidents, times of illness, etc. that can be a setback to toilet training, but for the time being we are insanely proud of our little man!

Be sure to visit FisherPricePlay.ca to find toys that help celebrate children’s milestones. As they play, laugh, and grow you’ll both enjoy countless milestone moments together, and Fisher-Price is there for each and every one of them.

I’m part of the Fisher-Price Play Panel and I receive special perks as part of my affiliation with this group. The opinions on this blog are my own.

Filed Under: Family Tagged With: babies, contest, Fisher Price, Milestones, Play Panel, Power of Play

The Green Goblin

June 21, 2011 By Lena

I’ll never forget the first time Ryder tottered over to our front lawn. A sea of green; he was anxious to test the waters. But there was just something about the look, texture or smell of the fuzzy carpet that made him stop dead in his tracks.

“Here you go!” my husband cajoled, plonking him right in the middle of the lawn.

And the water works began. He simply would not move his feet an inch, opting instead to cry while riveted on the spot. It literally took weeks before he ventured over again, and several more before he was able to tread grass without screaming his little head off. If I had to add it up, I’d say we spent hours coaxing him to take just one small step.

Two years later to the date, we’ve got another little guy terrified of the great green goblin.

Were your children afraid to walk on grass? Join the club!

Filed Under: Family Tagged With: babies, fun

Enter to Win: Daddy Diaper Changing Toolbox

June 8, 2011 By Lena

Note: The following giveaway is open to US and Canadian residents.

As Father’s Day is right around the corner, here’s a fun little giveaway that’s sure to bring on the chuckles!

Now it’s a fact that baby showers, prenatal perks, push presents and the like are all enjoyed by mamas-to-be. And, ahem, with good reason – we kinda do all the work, yes?

But more and more men are taking an active role once baby arrives – including my own husband, who learned to change a diaper before I did, and can expertly tell the difference between “tired cries”, “hunger cries”, and – as he likes to call ’em – “I own you b*tch!” cries.

So shouldn’t these awesome dudes be rewarded, too?

Introducing The Daddy Diaper Changing Toolbox. If you’re searching for fun and functional gifts for dads to be, or new dad gifts, look no further than the toolbox. The Daddy Diaper Changing Toolbox is a great way for him to get in on the baby planning action and add a little fun to a baby shower! It also helps to lighten the stress after baby arrives.

The Toolbox includes (click to enlarge picture):

• Mask –toxic fume filter for when it doesn’t smell like roses.
• Goggles –for protection against your own mini version of Old Faithful.
• Protective Poop Poncho –need we say more???
• Tongs –Several inches of steel separate you and the little warm wrapped gift.
• Turkey Baster –for precision hiney washing.
• Ear/Nose Plugs –use with care.
• Pacifier — scream plug.
• Baby Wipes — for cleaning baby bottom and various parts.
• Diaper for Newborn — cute as a kitten until it gets wet and smells like a sewer rat.
• Bio Hazard Bag/Rubber Gloves — for quarantine containment of the nuclear meltdown.
• Emergency Formula Container– doubles as a PeePee cover for WeWe.
• Hand Wipes– to clean up afterward. (For Dad’s use only).
• Picture Frame — this is your badge of honor.

Are you in stitches, yet? This is one of the most creative gifts I’ve ever seen!

The Daddy Diaper Changing Toolbox was featured on the TODAY Show last Father’s Day, and is PTPA Award Winning.


Parents everywhere agree: at just $36.99, it’s an awesome father to be gift! Any time of year, it’ll be sure to bring on the laughs. BONUS! You can save $10 off The Daddy Diaper Changing Toolbox with coupon code POOP101.


One lucky winner will win a Daddy Diaper Changing Toolbox! To enter, simply leave a comment telling us why this is the perfect gift for someone you know.

You can also qualify for extra entries! Remember, you must leave a separate comment for each. You can:

(1) Follow my blog, Listen to Lena!
(2) “Like” Listen to Lena! on Facebook
(3) NEW Follow Listen to Lena! on Twitter
(4) Follow FunStuff4Babies on Twitter
(5) Tweet daily: Please use this Daddy Diaper Changing Toolbox Giveaway Tweet.

I’ll draw for a winner on June 30th. Good luck everybody!

Filed Under: Contests Tagged With: babies, Daddy Diaper Changind Toolbox, fun, PTPA

NEW BABYBJÖRN High Chair!

June 1, 2011 By Lena

I know, I know… I just blogged about the awesomeness that is BABYBJÖRN. But when this came across my desk this morning, I just had to share! DROOL!

It’s the NEW BABYBJÖRN High Chair! That’s right, folks, from the creators of the most inspired baby products in the world, comes a sleek, compact and mess-free chair.

Features:

Unique safety solution & portable
The high chair’s unique design keeps the child securely in place and has two-step locks that can only be opened by an adult. Plus, the high chair is easy to fold. When folded, it is only 10.5 in/26 cm wide and is easy to store or take with you on a trip.

Perfect for the child’s back
Small children are not well-seated or comfortable in most high chairs. That’s why the BABYBJÖRN High Chair has a curved backrest that hugs your child’s body, and an adjustable table that helps your child to sit comfortably upright. The high chair is suitable for children from six months to three years, and is easy to adjust to your growing child.

Less mess
To minimize mess, the BABYBJÖRN High Chair has smooth surfaces without nooks and crannies where food can collect. The safety table fits snugly against the child’s tummy so that food does not fall into his or her lap. The tray-table is easy to take off and may be washed by hand or in the dishwasher.

The high chair will be available in stores at the end of summer, and is currently available for pre-sale exclusively through Giggle.com. Woot!

Filed Under: Family Tagged With: babies, BABYBJÖRN, high chair

BABYBJÖRN Travel Crib Light

May 31, 2011 By Lena

There are only a handful of companies I can always count on to make my life easier. BABYBJÖRN is one of those companies.

It’s no secret that one of my most coveted products for Baby Reid was the Babysitter Balance; one year and hours of happy bouncing later, I daresay its one of the most thoughtfully designed baby products I’ve ever had the pleasure of reviewing.

So it comes as no surprise that when in the market for a travel crib, I looked to BABYBJÖRN first. An essential for travel across the country (or just from room to room), the Travel Crib Light is the perfect way to keep baby contained – and content.

The good folks at BABYBJÖRN sent Reid a silver crib (pictured above). From the very first day, it has become one of the most popular products in our home.

Lena Loves:

Convenience. The BABYBJÖRN Travel Crib Light weighs only 11 pounds (5 kg) – that’s light enough for grandparents or even older siblings to tote around. The case’s practical handles make it as easy to carry as an ordinary bag; no more awkward golf bag setups like most standard playards. And the sleek styling makes it a pleasure to cart through the airport – I’ve never been able to match the bright juvenile patterns of other playpen shells with my crocodile Prada handbag, know what I mean?

Easy set up. Forget directions. Even my husband – Bizarro World’s equivalent of a handyman – was able to figure this one out. There are exactly three things you need to know: unzip bag, remove frame and shake to standing, insert mattress. That’s it – less than 30 seconds of your precious time. Don’t believe me? Watch this:

My husband and I took the Travel Crib Light Challenge – while he came in at about 22 seconds, I was well behind at 41 seconds. Of course, I competed while holding an excited, wiggling baby in one arm – proof that not only does the travel crib set up in under a minute, but it can also be set up one-handed.

Safety and Comfort. I want to stress that although your wee one will likely have fun hanging out in the crib, it’s not a playard. The Travel Crib Light is a safe, comfortable place for your child to sleep when you’re on the go. Made with high quality and machine washable Oko-Tex Standard 100 (class 1) approved fabrics, it translates into peace of mind for parents and a good night’s sleep for baby. The BABYBJÖRN base sits directly on the floor and the frame fans out wider at the bottom. This ingenious design prevents tipping from both sides of the crib and makes it a safe environment for both baby and siblings.

Now have you ever felt the “mattress” that comes with a standard playard? More like a piece of cardboard, right? Well, the Travel Crib Light’s one-piece waterproof mattress is both plush and breathable, allowing for a sleeping experience as close to baby’s crib as possible.

If you think you won’t have a use for the product, consider this: I’ve traveled very lightly in the past year – not enough to qualify me as a world adventurer. The reason I find the BABYBJÖRN Travel Crib Light so convenient is the ability to take it from room to room in literally seconds. I always have a comfortable, safe place for Reid to chill out while I go about my day, and if he happens to nod off in the cozy environment – well, I’m not complaining at all :)

Here’s the Travel Crib Light in “Action” –

REID WAVING FROM HIS FAVOURITE PLACE TO CHILL
CAN YOU SPOT THE CRIB AMIDST THE CLUTTER
DURING MY RECENT RENO-CATION?
EVEN RYDER LIKES TO CRASH IN THE CRIB – IT’S SO COZY
AND COMFY, IT’S JUST LIKE OLD TIMES!

As you can see in th last picture, even a ridiculously tall 3-year old can enjoy a nice siesta in the travel crib. Guess there’s just something about the plush, soft environment that makes him all sleepy!

The crib retails for CDN $329.99 and can be purchased at major retailers across North America. In the Greater Toronto Area, look for it at Dear-Born Baby and Babies R Us.

Click here to learn more about the BABYBJÖRN Travel Crib Light.

Filed Under: Family Tagged With: babies, BABYBJÖRN, review, safety, travel, Travel Crib Light

5 Things I Learned About Breastfeeding

May 26, 2011 By Lena

Baby Reid is growing up!

As we just celebrated his first birthday, a popular topic of discussion at his party was, “So, are you done with breastfeeding?”

Technically – no. I still BF him morning and night, and any time in between when I’ve got a few moments and he’s craving boob (just like I crave chocolate, I bet). But when we’re on the go or I’ve got things to do, he’ll happily sip a straw cup filled with homo milk.

I can’t deny that weaning brings about a whole new sense of freedom, but old habits die hard and frankly I do miss the closeness. Which is why Reid is still 50% boobage… with me being at home, there’s really no rush to wean completely.

So I began thinking about my breastfeeding journey one year ago; my struggles, my hopes and finally, my success. Remember A Tale of Two Boobs? Seems like a lifetime ago, but after reading the posts, I’m filled with awe and satisfaction of how fine-tuned nature can be. Therefore, I decided to do a post on five things I’ve learned along the way.

1) Breast is best, but formula is fine, too. 

I’ve got two beautiful, healthy boys – one completely on formula, the other, 100% breast milk. I thought after I successfully breastfed that I would have an epiphany; that I would suddenly realize what all the hype was about. Well, I can’t deny that there are oodles of benefits of breastfeeding, but when it comes down to it, I felt no more love, satisfaction or peace than when I fed Ryder. Just as I spent hours connected to Reid, I spent the same time cuddling and holding Ryder close as I bottle fed him. So when it comes down to it, I think as long as you’re making a concerted effort to love, care for and nourish your child, after you’ve made your choice (hopefully an informed one), don’t beat yourself up over where that nourishment comes from.

2) Adhere to the “Two Week” rule.

When I first decided that I truly wanted to give breastfeeding my best, several mamas weighed in with advice. But a recurring token of wisdom was to simply hang in there for two weeks. Yes, it’s VERY uncomfortable. And your nipples will feel tender, sore, and will likely bleed. And it’s a b*tch if you’re trying for the first time following a c-section. BUT, take a short term approach. Tell yourself to hang in there, if only for two weeks. With Ryder, I quit after four days. I just couldn’t see myself going through any more pain or frustration. But had I just hung in there a little longer, who knows? With Reid, around the 4-5 day mark I once again found myself caving, but I was steadfast and held my ground. And just like most mamas predicted, after about 10 days, suddenly it hurt a LOT less, my nipples “toughened” up and stopped bleeding, and like magic, Reid got the hang of it.

So I’m now a HUGE fan of the two week rule. Of course, there are many instances in which no matter how long you persevere, breastfeeding is not for you (or your child). But in instances where your resolve is weaning purely based on pain and/or discomfort, hang in there. You’ll be amazed at how quickly things turn around.

3) The “latch” is a temporary phenomenon.

When you’re first introduced to breastfeeding, it’s all about baby’s latch. You’ll find written instructions, diagrams and even videos which will show you the preferred placement of baby’s mouth on nipple. And while it is vitally important in those early days to establish a correct latch, rest assured, after a month or two, you’ll no longer be so interested what baby is doing with his/her mouth. Because once a baby learns how to get what he needs, he’ll get it – lying down, upside down, you name it. In fact, Reid’s currently favourite position is with me lying on my back and him crouched over me with his butt in the air. It goes against everything I know about gravity, but hey, he’s drinking and he’s happy. The latch is only important in those early days – after that, baby’s instincts will take over.

4) A breast pump is a valuable tool.

Yes, I wrote a review and had a giveaway for a Medela Freestyle. But I just want to put it on record that I firmly stand behind both the product, company, and value of having a quality breast pump on hand. It’s particularly important in the first month, while establishing supply.

The Medela Freestyle helped me in the following ways:

a) In between BF’ing sessions, I pumped to stimulate my milk supply.
b) I sometimes topped off Reid after breast feeding with the pumped milk, so I was always certain he’d had enough to drink. Took a lot of the guesswork out, and saved me from supplementing with formula.
c) Pumping and storing allowed me to be away from Reid for short periods of time, and even gave me a break at night when hubby took over one feed.

Not sure if it was nature or all my efforts pumping to stimulate supply, but for the first 7-8 months I actually had an oversupply to the point of engorgement. But I’m not complaining!

5) The weight doesn’t always “fall off”.

It’s always amusing to read about celebrities’ theories on how they dropped the baby weight. “It’s definitely the breastfeeding” they always say. Oh sure. It has nothing to do with the personal trainers, team of nannies (who allow them to spend 5 hours a day in the gym), personal chefs or calorie-restricted diets. And it’s most definitely not that jaunt down to Brazil for a quick nip and tuck.

Now while it is a fact that breastfeeding burns up to 500 calories per day, technically, to maintain a healthy supply, it’s advised that lactating mothers increase their calorie intake by 300 calories. However, as most exclusively BF’ing mommies will tell you – you’re freaking STARVING all the time! So with a proposed deficit of 200 calories, the weight won’t necessarily fall off dramatically. BUT, breastfeeding will help you return to your pre-pregnancy shape more quickly, and with less intervention. It also helps if your body is in prime physical shape before you conceive – as any trainer will tell you, muscles have memory.

However, don’t be surprised if you hang on to an extra few pounds until you’ve started the weaning process – in the two weeks following Reid’s introduction to homo milk, I dropped 6 pounds without even trying. Turns out my body needed that extra fat to aid with the production of quality milk for my babe – a trade off I’m more than willing to oblige.

So there you have it – five things I didn’t know just one year ago, but am happy to share now. And to all the past, present and future breast feeders out there, my final tip post-lactation: invest in a quality push up bra!

LA VIE EN ROSE AIR PAD BRA
Any tips you’d like to share? Or war stories? Please, do tell!

Filed Under: Family Tagged With: babies, breastfeeding, la Vie en Rose, Medela Freestyle

Happy Victoria Day!

May 20, 2011 By Lena

For my Canadian readers, it’s the unofficial start of summer! What are you doing this Victoria Day long weekend?

Years ago, “May 2-4” meant a lot of things to me – predominantly booze, barbecues and bikinis. Planning a trip to the cottage, lake or (if weather permitted) beach required much organization and resources, a task that is still undertaken by truckloads of teens today.

When my partying days were over, I looked forward to what every working gal does – a day off. There was still booze and barbecues… but rather than keep the party going through ’til Monday night, Victoria Day long weekend represented a chance to sleep in and unwind.

(For my American friends, Victoria Day is a Canadian public holiday that occurs each year in May to commemorate the birthday of Queen Victoria.)

Then, last year, a little angel changed my perception of this holiday forever…

Tomorrow is Reid’s first birthday! I must admit I’ve been feeling slightly alarmed (and heartbroken) at the thought of one year flying by so quickly. We’ve planned a small birthday party for him; family, a few close friends, and a handful of cute babies and toddlers. And after a week of endless rain, the weatherman is calling for nothing but sun on Reid’s special day!

Happy Victoria Day everybody!

Filed Under: Lifestyle Tagged With: babies, Lena, long weekend, Victoria Day

Lena Loves… Babywrappers

March 23, 2011 By Lena

Babywrappers are back on Listen to Lena! Just in time for the Spring One of A Kind Show, let me refresh your memory on why these baby towels are one of my all-time FAVOURITE items for baby!

“Babywrappers are so unique and versatile you will never use another towel again for your baby’s bath. The Babywrapper hangs like an apron around your neck while protecting you from getting a bath yourself! This oversized bath towel was designed to be large enough to completely wrap your baby in it and light enough to comfortably feel your wiggly baby through it. When bath-time is over simply pick her up with your 2 free hands and place her on your chest, wrapping the towel around her. Your baby will enjoy cuddling up against you and will love the feel of the soft absorbent terry cloth towel around her. You’ll be amazed at how easy bath-time can be!”

Babywrappers are the invention of Canadian mom Dina, who found bathtime a challenge in her small bathroom. Inspired to improve her experience, Dina sewed up an apron-like towel that secured around her neck to protect her outfit while baby splashed about. Et voila! With her creativity and focus to bring the product to market, bathtime became easier for moms everywhere!

Because I stocked up on Babywrappers before Ryder arrived, we never had to endure the frustration of drying off a wriggly, slippery baby. But with fellow moms, it was constantly a topic of discussion – how to avoid being splashed, where to put the towel while lifting baby, and most important, how to keep baby warm during transportation from tub to bed/change pad. Babywrappers solve all of these problems!

Click here to see how Babywrappers work.

Babywrappers are available in a large selection of colours and textures, including waffle, gingham, velour, camo and more. They are quite honestly one of the perfect gifts for a mom-to-be – and you can forget all the standard hooded bath towels that are usually on baby registries. They do not work. They will be thrown out. Even after we purchased Babywrappers I received a few hooded towels at my baby shower, and could not believe how they paled in comparison with respect to quality, size, and of course, user friendliness!

Check out some of the newest colours in Babywrappers:

The towels took Ryder through to his first year of life, and then he became too big for them. But that’s okay – they’re perfect for Reid to enjoy – and he does now, every time he takes a bath.

Dina recently introduced 30″x35″ stroller blankets in the same great variety of colours as the Babywrappers; they’re soft, supple and a truly wonderful way to keep baby warm during all those early spring walks. You won’t be able to resist stroking the blanket along your cheek… I am certain they’ll soon become your baby’s favourite blankie. I love having a selection of quality blankets; one for the car, one at grandma’s… really everywhere, now that I think of it!

Visit Babywrappers at the Spring One of A Kind Show from March 30th to April 3rd – just stop by booth Q-16 and tell Dina you heard about Babywrappers on Listen to Lena!


Visit Babywrappers to view the selection of colours and designs, and to shop online.


Babywrappers has generously offered one Listen to Lena! reader the chance to win a Babywrapper or stroller blanket, in your choice of colour! To enter, simply visit the website and leave a comment here, telling us which one you would choose if you won.

You can also qualify for extra entries! Remember, you must leave a separate comment for each. You can:

(1) Follow my blog, Listen to Lena!
(2) Like Listen to Lena! on Facebook
(3) Tweet about this giveaway (tiny URL: http://tinyurl.com/4frvd7r)
(4) You may Tweet daily.

I’ll draw for a winner on April 20th. Good luck everybody!

Filed Under: Contests Tagged With: babies, Babywrappers, bath time, contest, One of a Kind

Build-A-Bear Workshop Spring Lineup!

March 15, 2011 By Lena

Just in time for Easter, Build-A-Bear Workshop has released some beyond adorable furry friends! Come meet the latest additions to their Spring lineup – that’s Swirly Lamb and two of the newest Limited Edition Small Frys, Summer Hugs Bear and Happy Chick shown above! (How cute is that little chickie?)

And, Build-A-Bear is your one-stop Easter shop: Starting March 18th, you can make your own Beary Limited edition Daisy Bunny ($18) or Swirly Lamb ($18) at Build-A-Bear Workshop and buildabear.com. For a limited time, you’ll also receive a FREE basket and candy gift with a purchase of $20 or more while quantities last. (Do remember to personalize your gift with a Build-A-Sound message that you record for an additional $8).

When I was young, it was customary to give chocolate for Easter; every year I’d look forward to a large, hollow egg with a tiny prize nestled inside. Later, plush Easter bunnies became all the rage. So I’d say that this Build-A-Bear gift set combines the best of both worlds!

I’ve been to Build-A-Bear a few times, but I’ve never come across their Small Frys! They’re just 7-in tall, and arguably the cutest little animals I’ve ever seen. I’m particularly in love with the Camo Bear pictured below – I die!!

For more information, visit buildabear.com.

Filed Under: Family Tagged With: babies, Build-A-Bear, promo, toys

Britax B-READY: New Fashions!

March 11, 2011 By Lena

Thinking of purchasing a Britax B-READY? (I’m sure y’all know it’s 100% Lena-Approved.) Well, in addition to their fabulous “Stroll Your Way” Event (ends June 30th while quantities last), come April, you’ll also have a choice of three (3) new sizzlin’ B-READY fashions! Introducing:

Is it wrong to lust after a stroller? Cause that Mediterranean Blue matches my diaper bag quite nicely :)

Visit Britax.ca for full details.

Filed Under: Family Tagged With: B-READY, babies, Britax, strollers

Mother Of A Sale: Sweet Savings!

March 11, 2011 By Lena

I was just strolling through a few of the deals on MotherofaSale.com and came across some pretty blog-worthy steals! I’m also loving their new FLAT RATE shipping: for just $10, you can load up your cart with as many items as you please from the site, plus any of their sister sites – Agoo, Sprig, Hasbro, FuzziBunz, Thermos, Gro Baby, and of course, MotherofaDailyDeal.com.

A bonus: They’re located in Vancouver, so your order ships duty-free! Just note that all transactions are in US dollars.

Here are a few sweet deals that tickle my fancy:

24 Carat Diamond Pacifier (Pictured Above): On sale for just $17,000 (regularly $24,000 – you save 7K!), this unique Diamond Pacifier that was designed by Mathis Riiber. The pacifier is made of 24 Carat solid White Gold decorated with 278 Diamonds. Shipping is slightly more expensive at $1,000.

BA HA HA HA – seriously??? Who buys this? Okay, now on to serious deals –

Bumble Bag – Jessica Messenger Buttercup Bliss: On sale for $44.99 (reg $128, save $83.01), Bumble Bags offers originally designed diaper bags to its ever-growing fan base of celebrity and main-street moms. All Bumble products are created using exclusive “one of a kind” hand designed prints combined with proprietary water and stain resistant fabrics that not only make the products lightweight, but durable and ready to endure motherhood’s greatest challenges.

Cloud B Twilight Sea Turtle: One of my very favourite children’s products! On sale for $26.99 (reg $39.99, save $13) Twilight Sea Turtle comes with three soothing color options green, blue, and amber, each illuminating different brightness levels to create magical, tranquil environments that are ideal for helping children of all ages fall asleep easier. Twilight Sea Turtle is more than just a soothing bedtime companion, he is also an interactive and educational toy. Within the star pattern are 8 actual constellations. The life size Twilight Sea Turtle is 14 inches head to tail and stands 5 inches high.

Bubblelicious Baby Blanket: Um drool. Buy this for your fave mama-to-be. Just $23.99 (reg $69.99, save $46) these Storky plush Baby Blankets are made with Winter fleece on one side , and Soft Velour on the reverse side. This beautiful quality blanket is machine washable, size 30” by 40” large and is made to ant-pill material. They offer extra Loft, densely packed fibers, and a smooth texture that regular ant-pill fabrics lack.

I was actually very lucky to receive one of these blankets for Ryder when he was just a baby, and let me tell you – they’re worth every penny. At under $25, I’ll be grabbing a few Off-White blankets for future baby gifts.

NEW Urban Rider Boy Boot: How stinkin’ cute are these?? These are on the Little Soles website for $38.95, but here, just $19.99! You save $18.95! The New Eco Squeaky Collection is made almost entirely of recycled materials including non-split, Top Grade, Toxin Free Leather uppers and Recycled Rubber outsoles. There’s a girls version in pink, but I can’t deny the black Urban Riders are pretty darn stylin’. I wish Ryder still fit into baby’s size 8… perhaps Reid will get treated to a rare non-hand-me-down!

Finally, I will be picking up each and every one of these bibs:

(There’s an even greater selection; the ones above just happen to be my favourites.)

“Introducing our new line of 100% All Natural Silicone Bibs! (Reg $9.99, now $5.99) Our bibs come with an adjustable neck and crumb catcher for babies 6M+ through toddler. All products have been tested for safety; our silicone bibs DO NOT contain LEAD, BPA, PHTHALATES, LATEX, or PVC. Tested for Safety; Dishwasher Safe; Antibacterial; Rolls up for easy travel.”

To check out all the amazing deals, click on over to MotherofaSale.com!

Filed Under: Family Tagged With: babies, Mother of a Sale, online shopping, sale

Pampers Gifts to Grow… Winners!

March 8, 2011 By Lena

Thanks to everyone who entered the Lena Loves… Pampers Gifts to Grow Rewards giveaway. First, I must apologize for my tardiness in posting the results – as mentioned one post below, life has been very hectic! But I’m happy to share some very good news with six (6) lucky winners!

All winners were drawn using Random.org; however, as I don’t want to pollute the esthetics of my blog with a bunch of widget snapshots, you’ll just have to trust me sight unseen. (Please send me an e-mail if you’d like a copy of the winning widgets – I’ll keep them on file for 7 days.)

First up, the GRAND PRIZE: a Gifts to Grow Unsung Heroes prize pack, including a diaper bag autographed by Bethenny Frankel, a package of Pampers diapers, and a Magnetic Tabletop Easel from Alex Toys (just one of the many fabulous rewards you can grab with your points!)

And the winner is… #48 KainsHottie! Congratulations!

Five (5) runners up will receive a Liz Lange diaper clutch, also courtesy of Pampers! And the winners are…

#92 mrsking14
#94 The Palmer Fam
#149 rbailey1958
#233 AmyLynn
#334 esluka

Congratulations all! Please send me an e-mail with your contact details, so that I may have the prize sent to your right away. Thanks again to everyone who participated, and to Pampers!

Filed Under: Family Tagged With: babies, contest, diapers, Gifts to Grow, Pampers, winner

NEW: Workshops by Dear-Born Baby

February 24, 2011 By Lena

One of my fave retailers of children’s goodies, Dear-Born Baby, is now offering workshops! If you live in the Greater Toronto Area, do check out their website for seminar topics and dates.

“Dear-Born Baby is not only the best at offering you the biggest selection of baby gear but we’re now offering the best workshops!

Designed to educate you in topics such as: Pre-Natal Fitness (Preparing to Push), Post-Natal Fitness (Resorting Your Core), Baby Massage, Pregnancy and Infant Nutrition, Choosing a Breastfeeding Bra and Breast Pump, Baby Sign Language, Infant Safe Sleeping, Balancing Life-Baby, Care Seat and Stroller Education.

Bonus: Every class includes a Dear Born Goodie Bag full of samples and a Flash Coupon from Dear Born Baby that can only be used in store the day of the event. There will be a door prize giveaway at the end of every class for a product from the speaker. Refreshments will be served throughout the Workshop Series.”

I’m hoping to attend the kick-off workshop on March 1st – Bra & Breast Pump Expert. I’ll be sure to blog about my experience, and let y’all know my take on the information, guest speakers, and of course – goodies and promotional offers!

Many of the workshops are absolutely FREE but pre-registration is required. Others are priced reasonably from $15-$25 per person. Click here to view all Spring workshops.

Dear-Born Baby is located at Yonge & Steeles in Thornhill, ON. Hope to see some of my readers there!

Filed Under: Family Tagged With: babies, Dear Born Baby, GTA, workshop

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