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Multi-Generational Memories

January 24, 2016 By Lena

It’s a moment I don’t want to forget.

The rain clouds began to dissipate, revealing a bright sunny day with a promise of the perfect weather Orlando is known for. As we made our way into Walt Disney World’s Magic Kingdom, Ryder, my sweet, sensitive 7-year old, beckoned me with his hand.

“I want to look at the castle,” he said.

This is our tradition. Skirting over to the nearest curb to avoid the crowds, I let him drink in the sight of Cinderella’s castle. It didn’t matter that we were too far for an unobstructed view. It didn’t matter that we were pushed together as a steady throng of guests shuffled past us. My entire world was reduced to a little boy, staring in helpless wonder at a fairy tale come to life.
DSC_0064aWhat is he thinking? What does he see? I wondered. Was he imagining himself as the brave prince who fights for the maiden’s honour? Was he envisioning the colourful burst of fireworks that adorn the sky at night? Or did he simply see the castle for what it was – an iconic representation of a place where dreams come true? I had to know. 

“What are you thinking?” I asked quietly.

Ryder smiled as a look of pure, innocent love washed over his face.

“I wish Grandma was here. I wish Grandma could see this,” he replied.

Blinking back tears, I held my phone in the air and took a photo to capture the moment I didn’t want to forget. And I made a promise to myself: as soon as I returned home, I would tell my mom that she and my father would be joining us on a Walt Disney World vacation. This year. Without exception. Because this is something we could give Ryder. This is something he would cherish. Together, we could make it happen.

Later, when we returned to Canada, I recounted the moment and shared Ryder’s wishes with his favourite person in the entire world.

“I’m in,” my mom said. “Let’s do it.”

We’re currently in planning mode. Making multi-generational memories? Now THAT’s magical.

Filed Under: Travel Tagged With: Disney Cruise Line, family travel, Magic Kingdom, Walt Disney World

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  1. Jenny

    January 24, 2016 at 9:07 pm

    Aww, this is so sweet! We went with our DD and my parents on a WDW vacation when she was 4 and it was one of our best vacations.

  2. Carlee

    January 25, 2016 at 7:48 am

    Cute! We never had enough money to take our daughters to Disney but when they grew up they took us with our grandkids. There was 9 of us in total! We had such a great time and didn’t even mind all the walking.

  3. Jaime Damak

    January 25, 2016 at 7:53 am

    Got the shivers reading your post. My son is very much like yours. Two years ago, we spent two days at Disney with my mom (her first time ever at Disney). It was AMAZING. We made a promise to do it again. Reading your post made me realize that I should start planning too. Thanks for sharing your story. :-)

  4. Sheri

    January 25, 2016 at 8:09 am

    That is so sweet. I’m glad you’re making it happen.

  5. Candace Derickx

    January 25, 2016 at 9:41 am

    That’s awesome! We did Disney with my parents one year and my kids still talk about it. You’ll never regret it.

  6. Stephanie

    January 25, 2016 at 9:48 am

    Love love love! Hope you get to make that dream come true!

  7. Jolee

    January 25, 2016 at 12:58 pm

    This post made me tear up :)

  8. Tara Jeles

    January 26, 2016 at 11:10 am

    I’m so glad that you’re taking his favourite person along! We took my parents in April and we all loved it. It was definitely magical.

  9. Cheryl

    January 26, 2016 at 12:37 pm

    That’s the sweetest thing in the world!

  10. Marissa

    January 26, 2016 at 3:00 pm

    Aww…..that is so sweet! I hope Ryder’s dream comes true!

  11. Andrea

    January 26, 2016 at 6:08 pm

    This got me: “I wish Grandma was here. I wish Grandma could see this.” And now I sit here with tears welling up in my eyes because I am reminded how fortunate my kids are to have all four grandparents — and all four of them very much in their lives. What a wonderful moment the two of you shared that day.

  12. Judy Cowan

    January 27, 2016 at 10:43 am

    Love! Making memories are so important!

  13. Melinda Jana

    January 27, 2016 at 2:02 pm

    Those are the sweetest words a little boy could say, I bet grandma would remember that for years to come

  14. Suzie M

    January 27, 2016 at 7:21 pm

    I just came back from taking my grandchildren & their parents to Disney World, it was wonderful, spending time with little & big alike will treasure it forever

  15. Athena

    January 27, 2016 at 7:59 pm

    I think this is really great!

  16. Angelehm

    February 6, 2016 at 11:41 pm

    That is so sweet I am sure the memories will carry through his whole life.The grandparents will really enjoy it too! My youngest daughter was able to experience Disney Florida with her dad and great aunt,I am still going through the photos! They attended my mother in laws wedding and moms sister had connections at Disney. They had an incredible time together.

  17. kathy downey

    February 11, 2016 at 12:30 pm

    You are making such beautiful family memories !

  18. Donna Wilson

    March 16, 2016 at 5:52 am

    What a great story! :)

  19. Judy Cowan

    March 18, 2016 at 10:37 am

    Have you planned your trip yet? Would love to plan a multi-generational trip to Disney someday.

  20. Janet M

    March 21, 2016 at 4:21 pm

    Disney World is a great place for all ages.

  21. Treen Goodwin

    March 28, 2016 at 9:47 am

    Awesome , looks like an amazing place , i hope to get away on day , dreaming !

  22. sarah alexis

    April 9, 2016 at 11:07 am

    I am a single mom with two kids that are seven years apart. I planned a trip to disneyland and thought… how am I going to do this by myself? My son can’t go on all the big rides and my daughter won’t want to go on them by herself!!!!??? Solution… I invited my mom to come. Nana to the Rescue!!!!! It was PERFECT :)

  23. Debbie White Beattie

    May 25, 2017 at 11:00 pm

    I totally agree because when my niece was old enough to remember the trip we all went because we were really close to her. So mom & dad, grandparents and this auntie all went so we could experience it through a 7 year olds mind and amazement.
    One of my best trips ever.

  24. Calvin

    April 17, 2018 at 2:26 pm

    Nice share, always great to make memories.. different experiences at different ages, disney is for all ages!

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