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Baby 101: Follow Your Instincts

September 10, 2015 By Lena

The wonderful thing about being a mother – without actually having a newborn – is the ability to reminisce about the baby stages with nostalgia and fondness  … but not having to live through them again.

Oh, baby won’t sleep? What a sweet little angel. 
She’s colicky? Poor little sweetie, she can’t help it. Shhh.
Pooped all over the change table, huh? Too adorable.

Of course, back when I was a parent for the first time, I’m pretty sure my reaction was decidedly different. As in, “get this crazy baby away from me, I’m at my wit’s end.” But that’s the lovely thing about time; it heals wounds and allows parents to forget just how difficult caring for a baby really is.

Now I’m no expert, but I’ve been officially designated the family’s “Parenting Guru” (based solely on the fact that I had babies first and ergo, have the most experience). And often, I find myself recalling the good times – the smiles, the coos, the bright-eyed babies looking around with wonder and innocence. But crying through the night? Don’t remember a thing!

(Ironically: pictured below, Reid crying.)
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And if I had to lend just one piece of advice to new parents out there, it would be to follow your instincts. Honestly! There’s no “right” or “wrong” way to care for a baby; mothers have successfully raised children for centuries without the help of Dr. Google or Facebook mommy groups. What’s right for you may not be right for me, and what’s right for one baby may not be right for the next (even in the same family!).

Here are my three golden rules:

1) After the first few weeks of life, don’t wake a sleeping baby. No, seriously, don’t do it. Baby WILL wake up when he’s hungry and trust me, right now he’s happy/ warm/ well fed/ dry/ blissful. Because if he was in any way short of perfect, he’d tell you. Likely by howling at the top of his lungs. Trust me – just let him sleep.

(But remember – In the early weeks of life, it is recommended to wake a newborn so that they feed at least 8-12 times per 24 hour period.)

2) Breastfeed or formula feed. Of course breast is best; it’s well documented that breast milk is the optimal form of nutrition for your baby. But if you can’t, or don’t want to breastfeed, formula is the next best option. I’ve been there; I know what it’s like to balance knowledge, guilt, responsibility, social perception and stamina. And in the end, all that matters is that you love your child and care for him in a way that makes sense to you. I have two boys; one was fully formula fed, the other, fully breastfed. Guess what? They’re both perfect in their own way.

3) Be a closet nutritionist. If there’s one thing I’ve always been insistent on, it’s making sure that both my boys receive the right balance of nutrition. Since Ryder was formula fed, I spent a lot of time researching before I settled on the brand I would use. In the end, Ryder was a Good Start baby. Nestlé Good Start infant formula has benefits for baby such as probiotics, small proteins for small tummies, and Omega 3 & 6 to support development. It was the formula recommended by Ryder’s pediatrician and my family doctor.

Love your baby. Do your research. Follow your instincts. And follow the golden rules.

This post is sponsored by Nestlé Canada.  The opinions and language are my own, and in no way do they reflect Nestlé Canada. Please consult your healthcare professional before introducing infant formula.

Filed Under: Family Tagged With: good start, infant nutrition, Nestle

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  1. Judy Cowan

    September 10, 2015 at 1:23 pm

    Great tips. I agree use your instinct, what is right for one baby doesn’t always work for another.

  2. JaimeeM

    September 11, 2015 at 3:13 pm

    So very true about following your instincts. A momma always knows what her baby needs.

  3. Guppy

    September 11, 2015 at 3:25 pm

    Every Mom and baby are so different there is always more than one way to ‘do it right’. Great post!

  4. mrdisco

    September 12, 2015 at 9:29 am

    nice photo

  5. Stephanie LaPlante

    September 19, 2015 at 11:33 am

    This was an adorable article. Made me giggle. Love the tips.

  6. salexis

    October 19, 2015 at 2:04 pm

    Yes yes yes. Instincts. Also known as you GUT! listen to it !!!! :)

  7. kathy downey

    October 19, 2015 at 6:18 pm

    Great tips,your instincts are usually right

  8. kathy downey

    October 25, 2016 at 11:44 am

    I look at the photo of this little guy and i can’t wait for my grandson coming in Feb.my daughter’s first….so excited

  9. Debbie White Beattie

    June 27, 2017 at 11:33 pm

    Although nowadays they have all kinds of information available for pregnancies and parenting from newborns up but I can’t imagine what it was like before all the information that’s available now. It really would be nice if there was a manuel out there and it was available from the beginning of time and it referred to every baby; wishful thinking !!! lol

  10. kathy downey

    January 14, 2018 at 12:19 pm

    This is a wonderful read and yes follow your Instincts

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