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#ThrowbackThursday #tbt: My First “Sari”

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It was a holiday gathering at home, and the ladies decided a fashion parade was necessary. All of the women chose their most intricate, most treasured saris. A sea of turquoise, bronze and fuchsia laid out before me. It was beautiful.

But then! Oh, the surprise! A family friend had dressed her two daughters in “ghagras” as well, and it was immediately clear to me that I was the only girl wearing a “western” or “modern” dress. Curse you all!

My mother, sensing my building hysteria at the sight of my play friends donning traditional dress, took the stairs two at a time, trying to find an adequate solution. Throwing a petticoat over her arm, she unravelled a roll of pink remnant lining material lying on her closet floor.

I walked up the stairs, wailing with indignation. “Stop crying!” she snapped, instantly drying my tears. And in a matter of moments, I was transformed into a little Indian princess. My very first sari.

And… my only sari. Sadly, being raised Roman Catholic by very westernized parents, we held on to few traditions, adapting the predicatble t-shirt and jeans wardrobe rather quickly. Still, there was that one night in December, 1982….

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  1. Shelley N

    very cute photo and story. There is nothing stopping you from sometimes wearing the traditional dress from your background even now. When I was younger I had a kilt that I bought in Scotland when I was 12 and I wore it occasionally.

  5. Soozle

    Love it :D Your mom is certainly a smart gal!

    You REALLY see how much Reid looks like you from your ‘baby’ pictures! Wow!

  8. Chandra Christine O'Connor

    my gosh your eyes are magnificent. Your mother sounds like a very caring woman.

  9. Flora M

    I couldn’t tell that it was an “impromptu” sari – your mom is definitely a quick thinker ! I really need to get my buns in gear and find my old photos too and have my own “throwback” with my family.

  15. Marissa

    That picture of you is so adorable Lena! Reid looks so much like his mommy with those gorgeous eyes and cute smile.

  19. Susan T.

    Saris are so colorful and pretty. I’m often tempted to wear one but since my family is Swedish, I control the urge. I don’t want to offend anyone!

  20. jaimeem

    beautiful picture. My neighbour has a vast collection of saris, so many pretty colours and the fabric is so nice!

  21. Guppy5700

    I googled ‘Ghagra’ having only heard the term ‘Sari’ before. Thanks for the ethnic fashion lesson. I learned a few more things about choli and dupattas too! And you were ( still :D ) a cutie!!

      • Guppy5700

        Well…. according to Wikipedia a choli is the crop top and the dupatta is the scarf portion, ghagra being the skirt – together they make up a sari.
        And a gharara is the pants/tunic combo. Wiki is wonderful!