I’m not that mom.
I’m not that mom who has huge expectations of her child. I’m not that mom who takes her little one to early math centres so he can get a leg up on the “competition” (other JK’ers). And I’m certainly not that mom who favours structured socialization over good old fashioned toys (at least not at a tender age). Not that there’s anything wrong with those moms; for better or worse, our parenting styles are simply different. As for me, I guess you could say that I believe in the power of play, and learning through play.
Because it’s more than just banging on a piece of wood or plastic, isn’t it? Every time I see Reid attack one of his toys, he’s learning. He’s sensing, discovering and imagining. In fact, sometimes I can actually see the wheels turning; I anticipate his next move, wait for his next toothy grin, brace myself for the next burst of energy.
A toy as simple as the Fisher-Price Go Baby Go Bat & Wobble Penguin has brought on so much enjoyment! He’s been playing with it for about 3 months on and off, and whenever he’s in a surly mood, I bring it back out to cheer him up. In fact, the pictures below were taken just seconds after a crying fit – not sure if you can see the red rims around his eyes, but this toy definitely stops the tears in my house!
When Reid first encountered the penguin, he’d simply bat it back and forth with much enthusiasm but no real direction. Now, after a little bit of friendly swatting, he picks it up and takes it with him to the couch, babbling away as he sits down beside it. Then, he treats the toy as his best pal; an arm casually swung around it as he pretends to watch the television. Now tell me he hasn’t learned a thing or two about socialization?
Here are a few interesting tidbits from the article, Play and Skill Development on Fisher-Price.com:
– As children play with toys, with one another, and with adults, they acquire and improve the skills necessary for formal learning in later stages of their lives.
– Along with the skills of eye-hand coordination and control that come from playing with toys will come a fantastic amount of concept development—understanding the meaning of relationships and intrinsic characteristics of objects.
– One thing parents want to be sure and look for in toys they buy their children is that the toys should communicate directly to the children and not necessarily require adult explanations. For example, the child knows immediately if he has worked a puzzle correctly.
Get back to basics and let kids be kids! And, check out Fisher-Price Play to find the perfect age and stage appropriate toys for your LOs!
:). I think I might be that kind of mom too. This might sound like a random question, but the part about communication in your post made me think about it. Do your children get frustrated if they can't do a puzzle or figure out a toy?I have an almost 2 year old and she gets so annoyed with puzzles if she can't do them. She'll be sitting on the floor playing and all of a sudden there will be a lot of yelling at the toy. I want to encourage her, but I don't know if doing everything for her is the way to go. Maybe it's a stage. Maybe she just takes after her Mommy.
I totally hear you. At about the same age (almost 2) I introduced Ruder to those chunky wood puzzles. Well, when he couldn't get it right, he screamed, he cried, I swear the neighbours must have thought we were beating him for all the wailing coming from the house. In the end, I'd just make it clear that I was showing him how to do it ("Let mummy help you") and guided him a bit. He quickly picked up and then with successive puzzles, he figured them out without my intervention. So I do believe a little teaching and guidance is also a form of encouragement :) Sounds like you're doing everything exactly like I did, and yes, it can definitely be a stage!
We have the same penguin, and it sees lots of play. Right now my son enjoys throwing it around, not just batting it. He seems to be having distance throwing competitions with himself.
Good piece Lena. I'd say I'm the same type of mom as you are.David also has the penguin and loves playing with it…my sister named him Peter, lol :)
I wish my mom believed in learning through play when i was a kid! lol
My goodness that's adorable!!!